Kat Kalashian reflects on her decade-long journey living in Paris, having first arrived as a high school student in 2004 before returning permanently in 2018 with her husband, dog, and cat. Over the past six years, they’ve built a life in the City of Light, welcoming two daughters, investing in real estate and agriculture, and working toward residency and citizenship.
Having seen Paris evolve over the last two decades, Kat notes that while Parisians love tradition, change has crept in—especially through the subtle influence of American culture. Once ridiculed, jogging is now commonplace, and casual wear, like sneakers and baseball caps, has become more accepted. Even takeout culture, previously unheard of, has flourished since Covid, making life more convenient for expats and locals alike.
Despite these cultural shifts, Paris remains a city that values stability. Unlike other major capitals, it resists large-scale modernization efforts, with strict building regulations preserving its iconic skyline. However, the 2024 Olympics prompted infrastructure upgrades, including new bike lanes, pedestrian zones, and improved public amenities—changes that, despite initial resistance, ultimately benefited residents.
Daily life in Paris follows a structured rhythm: metro, work, sleep. Yet, unlike in many work-centric cultures, Parisians fiercely protect their leisure time. With a 35-hour workweek, long lunches, and August vacations when much of the city shuts down, work-life balance is a defining feature of life here. Shops close on Sundays, and school holidays are frequent, reinforcing a slower, more deliberate pace of life.
Neighborhood selection is key when settling in Paris, as each area has a distinct personality. Kat emphasizes the importance of finding a residential community rather than a transient business district, where relationships with neighbors and local cafés can foster a true sense of belonging. While the city retains its traditional charm, for those who dream of moving to Paris, the reality can live up to the fantasy—with a little patience and the right mindset.
